你和他 已经走到了这个地步，回头无路。努力了那么久，幸苦了四年，流多少了眼泪，这一次你就好好的放手了吧，不要让自己狼狈下去。 世界上，很多事是无法勉强的， 包括爱情。感情是不能勉强的，也勉强不来，就算你死死地抓住，抓住的什么？多了伤痕，多了痛苦，不是吗？ 而你自己也知道，你和他如果还是走下去的话，结果还会是一样的。最后，还是分手，离开彼此。 也许，你现在觉得非常烦，非常难过。你明明知道他心里已经有了另外一个人，你明明知道该把他忘了，而且发现自己缺了勇气，自己没有那么伟大。以前美好的回忆还是深深的埋藏在你脑子里。其实，最痛苦的是莫过于是徘徊在放与不放之间的这一段。真正下决心放弃了以后，反而会有一种释然的感觉。我知道放弃不是一件简单的事，可是你还是需要收集勇气去面对现实。不属于我们的，就要能放得下。 而且，一个人一生可以爱上很多人的。等到你获得真正属于你的幸福之后，你就会明白这一次的放弃其实是一种财富。放弃会让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜，不是因为你得到你想得到的，而是因为你是在为自己而活。这四年，你为了他付出了不少而点点滴滴的失去了自己，忽略了不少其他人，朋友或许家人，所以现在你就应该好好的为自己而活，相信有一天你回遇到真正属于你的男人。 “学会放弃，放弃不是舍弃，是一种等待，等待更好的时机。” “学会放弃，放弃不是退避，是一种贮蓄，贮蓄更大的勇气。” “学会放弃，不要硬挺着坚持，这样只会消磨你的意志，终究会迷失自己。” “学会放弃，放弃是一针清醒剂，让你静下心来反思，让你的头脑更加清晰。” “学会放弃，放弃是一个更新起点！” 学会放弃，放弃也是一种智慧的美丽。懂得放弃，才更懂得拥有，懂得珍惜。放弃是一门艺术，它不是叫你盲目的逃避，而是要你明白痛苦的维糸还不如放弃。 所以意庭，把他忘了吧，给自己从新开始的机会，好吗？
Funny how I am going head over heels over Ji Jia Wei and Guan Xiao Tong’s budding romance. There is actually fluttering feelings in my tummy, the butterflies. I can’t stop smiling, I replay all their romantic and sweet scenes over and over again. I check their Instagram pages religiously, hoping that one of them…… Continue reading The aftermath
In unexpected turn of events, I am officially heading to Wellington next Wednesday, for a total of 13 hours. Although I can’t deny that there’s a tinge of excitement (cause Amanda finally gets to travel beyond Auckland and Waiheke), at large I am terribly annoyed. This trip is unnecessary if someone actually answers the e-mails!…… Continue reading Wellington bound.
The sun peeked through the thick grey clouds as I made my way to arts building. At least it didn’t rain and it was a tad warmer compared to the previous two days. But soon enough the storm came rolling in and it poured, the wind gushing. The day turned extremely gloomy as the three…… Continue reading Finally, it’s over
I came across the word closure during the first ever debating practice in Junior College. Thinking about it, it was the most humiliating yet humbling practice I have ever had to date. Since then, I have grown very attached to this word, for inexplicable reasons. I am someone who gravitates towards closure. I dislike loose…… Continue reading Closure
Truthfully, I don’t even know why I created this blog in the first place. First of all, I am terrible at writing. Secondly, even my GP teacher once told me that my written pieces are so ‘heartless’; they are loaded with information but they are so emotionless. Indeed, I humbly acknowledge that. Thirdly, even I…… Continue reading Why do I even..
Two weeks after, sleeping is still my only mean of escapism. Life has been hard, not that it wasn’t two weeks before this. 2015 has been an extremely challenging year thus far. A major fight in January, increasingly difficult courses, unending laboratory reports, cancelled plans, lingering disappointments and a heart break. Missing you or the…… Continue reading Escapism..